Wow.....really T-Pain?

So I'm pretty sure you all have seen this recent picture of T-Pain with a chain on that has a big ass charm on it that says "Big Ass Chain". Now, Im all for spending your hard earned money on what you please, but this shyt right here? Is fuckin' ridiculous. First off, supposedly this chain cost $419,000.............riiiiiiiiiiight. I totally find that statement and figure to be factually FALSE. But even it it did, that chain couldn't possibly be encrusted with real diamonds because that amount of diamonds would definitely cost a hell of a lot more than a half of mil. Second of all, how do you have a charm that says "Big Ass Chain" when its your charm that's big? Third of all, why? And fourth of all, you are a fool.

Apparently his reasoning behind buying this "dumb shit" (his words not mine) is because he is able to do it and because his family is well taken care of.........interesting. This is exactly why rappers become broke and file for bankruptcy 10 years later................

And no I'm not 'hating' off of him. Without his fans, the same people who are probably jobless or making minimum wage, he wouldn't have the money to buy his "Big Ass Chain". I mean, really T-Pain, if you don't know what to do with your money, here's a suggestion: During one of your concerts, throw money into the audience. OR, have a scholarship raffle or some shyt I mean SOMETHING! Got damn! This shyt is stupid! What the hell is wrong with black folk? A regular necklace, ring, or bracelet would have been perfectly fine and normal. No one would have said SHYT. But because this COON had to go and buy a big ass charm with the words "Big Ass Chain" attached, it just made his investment look and seem extremely stupid. This entire ordeal reminds me of a verse Keri Hilson said on the remix to Soulja Boys 'Turn My Swagg on'- "You can buy you a chain but you cant buy respect.........." I have officially lost ALL respect for this dude.

Riddle Me This.......

So I was over at one of my favorite blogs, youknowyoudeadazzwrong, and there was a post Mo put up that portrayed a very.......interesting looking female in a wedding dress, and I as I was reading the comments I noticed that a couple of the chicks were commenting and basically asking how the hell was she getting wifed up looking the way that she does when they're cute and havent even gotten a porposal yet?lol. So I emailed the link to my homegirl and she's like "wow, and I bet her husband is attractive. Why the hell am I still single? Im sexy, independant, and make my own money." And a lot of females feel like this. We look at some women that are with handsome or attractive men and think "how in the hell did she get him?"lol. Hell we are ALL guilty of it. But what we fail to realize is that maybe its us. And I dont necessarily mean that in a bad way but as my friend was saying how she couldnt understand why SHE was still single because of how independant and attractive she was, something had suddenly caught my attention. Not one time did she state how much of a kind, giving, respectble, sincere, and honest person she was (all of which are true). All she basically did was speak on her material worth. It it amazed me because yes I believe a lot of men do in fact like independant women but if your own car and money is the only thing your're bringing to the table, then what? It was as if she felt entitled to have a man who wants to marry her soley based off of material worth and that should never be the case. A woman should feel like she deserves a man because of her good heart and her readiness to have an actual meaningful relationship. Not because of what she has. Besides, flaunting all our material possesions around may get us caught up in a relationship where the man starts to take advantage. I see it all the time on Judge Mathis, some chick loaned her boyfriend $500. He says it was a gift, she said it was a loan- even though we all know that it only became a loan AFTER they broke the hell up,lol. Yall Im just rambling and its all just food for thought,lol. But fellas what do you think? Is a woman's Independant-NESS(yes, I know that is not a word)what initially attracts you to a female next to her looks? Would a woman who has her own be enough to make you want to propose?lol.